Usually when you confide in someone, it’s usually because you trust them. You tell them your secrets, dreams, fears, and your emotions. And usually that person keeps your secrets with them. Well, not in my case. Although it’s funny seeing how this person told me things that she confided in me. Once I make a promise to keep, it stays kept. At the beginning of this month, my family was having problems and I confided in (Sara- not actual name) because I felt like her and I have been through so much in our lives that we had that special bond. So I hear through the grapevine that she told people at our church about my family’s secret. I know it was Sara, because she was the ONLY person that I confided about what was going on, because I felt embarrassed and ashamed. I AM COMPLETELY HURT. Who the hell does she think she is for thinking it was her place to go to OUR church and tell people about MY FAMILY’S problems. And embarrassing my family.
People are always asking me why I never open up to just anybody. And this is very reason why. I feel like I can never trust anyone again. I don’t think that it’s going to be easy to talk to her again. Now, with this blowing up in my face like it has, I know why she never responded to me about coming to my daughter’s birthday party and why she has even more distance herself from me. I just don’t know what to do. I’m just going to have to cut her out my life.
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